Friday, April 27, 2012

What is "culture?"

When you hear the word "culture," what comes to mind?

Most of us may be inclined to think of the arts and humanities, of fine foods and museums. But in an ever globalizing world, it is important to take a closer look at an alternative meaning of "culture." 

Culture
A system of collectively shared knowledge and beliefs that shapes how we generate our own behavior and how we interpret the behavior of others. 

Our world encompasses many cultures! It is integral to remember that not everyone views the world the same way that you do. When we talk about the culture of the Democratic Republic of the Congo please keep in mind that in the same way we cannot assume everyone in the world shares the same knowledge and beliefs that we do, we also cannot generalize even the people within one specific country. There are norms and values that are mostly widespread within these larger cultures that comprise our globe, but under that umbrella of what we may call a "national culture" there are many sub-cultures and micro-cultures. This is important to note so we may clearly demonstrate that learning about the culture of one country will absolutely add to the success of your endeavors but it will by no means protect you from confusing social situations and difficulties while interacting with the Congolese people. This is where the concept of humility comes into play...

Thursday, April 26, 2012

A Valuable Tool: Humility


Humility
Modest opinion or estimate of one's own importance, status, rank, etc. 

The above is a dictionary definition of "humility." For our purposes the concept of humility does involve this definition, but I would say that it also means setting aside our sense of entitlement. One of the best ways to avoid cultural misunderstandings is by removing yourself as much as possible from your own culture while maintaining and open-minded and accepting attitude about the culture you are visiting.

When you find yourself in difficult circumstances or you aren't sure how to communicate or behave, be humble. Even when you do not know the language well, humility will translate in almost any situation. It will be one of your most valuable tools! Along with this humility, heighten your awareness and pay attention to what the people around you are doing and imitate that behavior.

Humility will help remove your ethnocentrism.

Ethnocentrism
The idea that one's own culture (values, beliefs, understandings) is the best. 


We have all grown up in a cultural system that has inevitably shaped how we understand the people and world that surround us. To understand this better, let's think of culture as a pair of glasses - we all have lens' that we view the world through, and each pair has a different prescription.
That prescription is shaped both by the culture of the society we live in as well as our individual experiences. Each prescription is unique. For our purposes we will be looking at culture only... 
We cannot judge the next person's culture through our own cultural prescription. Values and standards vary greatly from culture to culture, and we cannot judge other cultures around the world relative to our own.

"Civilization is relative . . .  
our ideas and conceptions are true only so far as our civilization goes."
- Franz Boas,  the Father of American Anthropology 

In essence, we must be intentional about viewing another culture by its own values and standards rather than our own. 

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Some "W's" of the Congo

Who

Population: approximately 71.71 million
  • 44% of this population is less than fifteen years of age
  • There are over 200 ethnic groups 
    • The 4 largest ethnic groups
      • Mongo
      • Luba
      • Kongo
      • Mangbetu-Azande
    • In general these ethnic groups do live in peace. However, when political (both national and international) opposition occurs, these differences are sometimes exploited

Children walking from a camp for displaced persons, Eastern Congo

Traditional Congolese Hairstyle in village of Bangadi
What

The Democratic Republic of the Congo may also be referred to as:

  • DRC
  • Congo
  • Congo-Kinshasha
  • DR Congo

Flag of the DRC

In terms of size, the DRC is the eleventh largest country in the world. Although the Congo is relatively settled now as a presidential democratic republic, the journey to this point has been filled with political turmoil, guerilla groups and violence, and social unrest. There is, from a humanitarian standpoint, still much work to be done to provide the Congolese people with a government that protects and takes care of them.

The President - Joseph Kabila

Currency - Congolese Franc


Where

Where is the Democratic Republic of the Congo located? 


Right in the middle of the beautiful continent of Africa! 

The Democratic Republic of the Congo is bordered by nine other countries:
  • Central African Republic
  • Republic of Congo 
  • Angola 
  • Zambia
  • Tanzania
  • Burundi
  • Rwanda
  • Uganda
  • Sudan

DR Congo up close
The capital of the DRC is Kinshasa, the most populous city in the country.


Africa consists of a variety of different climates and vegetation, as well as varying topography. The DRC houses the second largest rainforest area in the world - the land is mostly covered by tropical rainforest with some deciduous forest, the "woodland savanna," as well. The Congo River is the deepest river in the world and flows through the rainforest into neighboring Republic of Congo.

Along the Congo River, Minkebe Reserve
The river is important to trade of goods and hydroelectric energy, as well as transportation: waterways serve as roads deep in the rain forest. 


Congo Basin
The Congo Basin is home to beautiful wildlife and many different species, including the Chimpanzee, Bonobo, Hippos, Forest Elephant, and Moutain Gorilla.


Mountain Gorilla, Virunga National Park, Eastern Congo

When

Depending on what kind of conditions you are comfortable with, you will want to pay attention to the seasons in the DR Congo. The climate is tropical, but varies with location:

  • Equatorial river basin - hot and humid
  • Southern highlands - cool and dry 
  • Eastern highlands - cool and wet

If you are traveling north of the equator...

  • Wet season - April to October 
  • Dry season - December to February
If you are traveling south of the equator...

  • Wet season - November to March
  • Dry season - April to October

--> Remember to bring your sunscreen - you may be in regions of the country that are close to the equator and the last thing you will need is a sunburn! 
This is a tropical climate, which means there will be mosquitoes. Many children and even adults contract malaria through mosquito bites, so be sure to bring mosquito nets or purchase them as soon as possible when you arrive.

It is recommended that you follow these general healthcare guidelines from the U.S. Department of State to prepare yourself!



Now that we've covered some of the basics, we can move on to the how's ...

KEEP IN MIND 
As we go through various facets of the culture of the DRC that we cannot generalize every single individual that lives there. Be conscientious of this in all your interactions, maintaining an open mind and willingness to learn and adapt to different situations!


Monday, April 23, 2012

Language

When visiting another country it is most ideal to be relatively proficient in their main language. Depending on the purpose of your trip and the region of the country you will be spending most of your time, you will want to be sure you know enough basic phrases in the main language(s) so you can interact with the people you will be working around and building relationships with.

The official language of the Congo is French, used in international commerce, the education system, and within government. Most Congolese will speak French fluently and English at different levels of proficiency, as well as one of the four national languages: 
  1. Lingala - spoken within Kinshasha & the western area of the country
  2. Kikongo - spoken in the western & southwestern areas of the country
  3. Tshiluba - spoken in the central & southern areas of the country
  4. Swahili - spoken in the eastern area of the country
It can be overwhelming enough to learn one new language, but to try to learn the national languages as well? That would take some time, and you are not at all discouraged from doing so. However, be encouraged to know that if you can develop some skills in speaking French, you will be able to communicate with most anyone!

Remember: as long as you approach every situation you encounter with humility and a willingness to learn, it is absolutely okay if you don't always speak the language perfectly and/or fluently. The majority of Congolese people are very friendly and considerate, and will genuinely appreciate your effort to communicate with them in their language. If your effort is obvious, they will be more than willing to help you!

Now, for some useful phrases in French to get you started!
  • Bonjour - Hello/Good morning 
  • Bonsoir - Hello/Good evening
  • How are you? - Comment allez-vous? 
  • Very well, thanks - Tres bien, merci. 
  • Yes - Oui
  • No - Non
  • Please - Si vous plait 
  • Thank you - Merci 
  • You're welcome (It's nothing) - Il n'y a pas de quoi
  • Excuse me - Excusez-moi
  • Do you speak English? - Est-ce que vous pouvez anglais?
  • Can you help me? - Est-ce que vous pouvez m'aider?
  • I don't understand. - Je ne comprends pas.
  • Sorry - Desole
  • Where? - Ou? 
  • When? - Quand?
  • How? - Comment?
  • Why? - Pourquoi? 
  • Who? - Qui? 
  • I'd like... - Je Voudrais...
  • I want... - Je veux...
  • How much?/How many? - Combien? 
  • That's fine. - C'est bien. 
It is suggested that you purchase a small English-French translation dictionary, as well as hire a translator to travel with you. It would also be beneficial to find someone that is willing to tutor you during your initial visits/time in the country - it is so valuable to be immersed in a culture while you are learning that language. To navigate your way through each day you will need to at least try to speak this new language, and this facilitates greater learning. You'll sound like a native speaker before you know it!

But is it just spoken language we need to be concerned about? Certainly not. Nonverbal communication is also an important part of interacting with others, even within your home country! This kind of communication can sometimes tend to vary person to person, however to be sure you don't communicate the wrong message there are a few things you should know about the Congolese people in general before you go:

  1. People in the Congo do genuinely care for others and are careful not to offend - however, their speech tends to be very abrupt, something we aren't normally used to in America. This kind of talking might come off as being abrasive to you... but do your best not to jump to conclusions or become easily offended if a new friend is very "to the point" and does not interact in a social dance with you. 
      • By "social dance," I am referring to the kinds of pleasantries we use here in the United States. For example: You are shopping at the mall and you pass someone you used to have classes with in high school, but you never really saw them much outside of school. They stop to say hello and you both inquire about what the other is up to these days... as the conversation appears to be coming to a close, you suggest it would be nice to get together for coffee soon. Do you really want to get coffee soon? There may be certain times when we do want to "catch up" with an acquaintance from our past, but most of the time it's just something we do to be nice. It is very unlikely to encounter something like this in the Congo, and it is strongly suggested to be as matter-of-fact as possible in all conversations. As a rule of thumb, remember this famous phrase: Say what you mean and mean what you say! You new friends in the Congo will take you at your word, be respectful of this and avoid speaking carelessly at all times. 
  2. The valued "mind your manners" is manifested differently in the DRC. Congolese people will often not say "please" or "thank you." Do not let this create conflict - give things time and you will see gratitude and appreciation expressed through actions, rather than pleases and thank-you's. 
      • It can be a challenge to remove oneself from cultural norms such as these and adhere to different sets of standards and values, but you are encouraged to try! It is not likely that your efforts will be in vain. I always remember my elementary school math teacher, who always gave me at least partial credit for trying my best. I struggled with math just as anyone can struggle to learn a new system of cultural understandings - but don't be afraid to commend yourself for trying, and don't forget that the Congolese people are generally very kind and will notice it as well! 
  3. Do not point or beckon with your index finger. While Americans sometimes consider this to be rude, we often brush it off in most situations. It is very inappropriate to do this in the Congo. If you need to beckon someone, wave with all of your fingers. 
  4. Always use your right hand. 
      • It seems like a given to use your right hand when shaking hands with someone during a greeting, but be sure to always do so! If for some reason your right hand is unclean, offer your right wrist. Do not ever offer your left hand. 
      • If you are passing an object, always use your right hand. If it is heavy, you may use both. Never use the left hand alone - it is used to personal hygiene and this is inevitably considered very unclean and thus disrespectful. 

Friday, April 20, 2012

Religion

Regardless of an individual's personal faith or denomination, religion plays a huge part in the everyday lives of the Congolese people. People regularly go to worship services and participate in prayer/ritual.

Prayer during Catholic Mass, Village of Mweso


The majority of the population (80%) practices Christianity, which encompasses a variety of denominations.

  • 50% Roman Catholic
  • 20% Protestant
  • 10% Kimbanguism - a form of Christianity combined with indigenous beliefs
    • It is important to note that many individuals mix basic Christian values and beliefs with more traditional Animist beliefs 
Islam is practiced by approximately 10% of the population, mostly in Kinshasha and in the eastern part of the country, while the rest of the population ascribes to an indigenous/traditional religion. 

It is very important to respect religious practices and worship services during your visit. Be conscious not to plan anything "business/work related" on a Sunday, or on certain observed religious holidays, such as Christmas and Easter.

Baptist Church, Vanga

If you feel comfortable doing so, always accept an invitation to attend services with your new friends! For many, faith is an integral part of life and the Congolese individuals you are working with will appreciate that you are open-minded and respectful of something so important to them. In order to help people, you have to build relationships with them. One of the ways you can do this is by sharing in the things that matter to them, showing your respect and consequently gaining theirs.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

People > Business

Remember that we cannot ever overgeneralize an entire population of a country, but in general you will find that the Congolese people value others more than most anything, including themselves. Here is where we get into the kinds of cross cultural differences that can result in misunderstandings, and here is also where it gets fun!

One of the best ways to examine culture is to look at your own culture first. Americans tend to put a lot of value on efficiency, timeliness, and the individual. In contrast to this, the Congolese put a lot of value on people (those around them), family, and community. Because the Congo is largely a communal society, you will find that the desires and needs of family, friends, and colleagues will be expected to come before those of the individual.

As a rule of thumb, keep this in mind:
Others > Self
Community > Individual
People > Schedules

On the surface this may not seem incredibly important, so let's apply it to a plausible real-life situation! 

Suppose you have planned to meet with a new friend/colleague for the afternoon meal at 2:00p.m. You've arrived a few minutes early just in case, and wait for their arrival. 
Over thirty minutes have gone by and you're still waiting - what do you do?

In America this is usually considered to be very unacceptable. In Congo, you should expect that your lunches/meetings will end up starting later, rather than early or on time. The Congolese like to truly enjoy life, and part of that means navigating through their day-to-day with flexible schedules and little rushing. Try your best not to react in the same way you would at home - you are a guest and you must respect these kinds of differences, even if it means making minor changes to the way you approach scheduling, social interaction, business, etc.
There are many reasons your new friend might have been late. Perhaps he/she had an appointment beforehand that was allowed to run much later than planned? This is a likely reason, because Congolese people don't "get down to business" in the same way that we do - remember: people > schedules. It is possible that your friend may have spent a lot of their time talking about personal topics like family and simply life in general. 
Your new friend might have had a personal or family emergency that held them up, causing them to be late or miss the date entirely. What constitutes an emergency? Do not be surprised if it isn't synonymous with the kind of emergency you might consider a viable excuse for missing an appointment! Americans tend to place their business/schedules at a higher level of importance than the Congolese ordinarily would - remove yourself as much as possible from your own cultural understandings and be considerate to the culture of your new friend. 
It will be very rewarding!  

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Men & Women; Young & Old

Let's talk about the role of the individual within family and society as a whole. To begin, remember that you cannot judge Congolese culture with your own cultural prescription. Be open-minded!

MEN


Gold miners at Chucja Mine, near Village of Kobu


Men have traditionally been responsible for providing protection for their families, as well as transportation, healthcare, and various other products for the home. They manage the finances for the household and usually provide the income for the family.


Most men do not regard women as equals in terms of employment, and women are expected to be submissive and follow the lead of the man with all decisions. 

WOMEN


War-displaced mother, 20 years old, Dungu


Women carry a lot of responsibility in the home and carry a lot of weight in the community, though this often goes unnoticed. They are responsible for taking care of the family and maintenance of the household, wherever that is.


They take care of feeding the entire family, as well as any agricultural work. Sometimes the woman of the household will take up a trade, such as making necklaces, clothing, etc. and will sell these products at a local market to contribute to the family finances.


The view and role of women will vary from tribe to tribe, with some offering more freedoms than others. For a long time women were not allowed to attend school. In urban areas, education still shows bias toward males but is now available to women if they can afford it.


Domestic and sexual violence against women is sadly not uncommon in the DR Congo, and mass rape and violence against women has been used as a weapon of war by rebel groups in the DRC during its civil war, called "Africa's World War," that still wages today. 

CHILDREN 


A young girl, displaced by war, carries firewood, Goma


The primary caregiver of the children is the biological mother. However, this is a communal society and it is not unusual for all of the adults within a village/tribe to be considered "parents." In general, help is given where help is needed and this holds true for childcare. You will not see this as often in urban areas, where the parents hold all of the responsibility and will employ a babysitter if necessary. 


In some tribes, girls are considered "children" until they are married, which can occur at varying ages. Some may not leave their household until 18 years of age. Because of this, you may encounter disciplinary techniques from a parent that seem inappropriate for the age of the girl, but this is normal behavior. 


Children often help with keeping up the household, which can involve collecting wood, cleaning, and traveling to retrieve water for the family.


THE ELDERLY


A woman outside of her hut, Eastern Congo


Congolese people hold their elders in very high regards, and they are consulted to assist in making important decisions as well as in mediating conflicts within the community. 


As healthcare is extremely limited for everyone in the Congo and the elderly are highly respected in their communities, you will not find a family placing their elders in a home or healthcare facility as we do in America. 

Do your best to to remove yourself from your own cultural knowledge so you can learn about the values and beliefs of your new Congolese friends with an even more open mind! 
This is not to say you should forfeit your own values and beliefs - but to judge the new culture you are navigating your way through with those standards, not your own.  

Saturday, April 14, 2012

Greetings and Meetings


You've just arrived in the beautiful Congo! Now that you're here, you will need to know how to present yourself to and interact with new people you will be meeting...

"Keeping up appearances..."

In general, Congolese people really value a clean and tidy appearance, especially within urban centers and when hosting guests. We might be inclined to assume that most of the population within a third world country such as the DRC wouldn't make this a priority, but we couldn't be more inaccurate! And this is just one of many examples that illustrate how vital it is to be as open minded and removed from presumptuous thought as possible.

When you're spending time in the city, it is safe to wear western style clothing and it is common to see most of your Congolese brothers and sisters wearing it as well. Most often these clothes are imported second-hand from the United States or other developed countries.

MEN 
Temperatures will be much hotter than you are used to, however it is extremely uncommon for adults to wear shorts. So, be sure to bring your pants! If you are concerned about the heat, a linen fabric will breathe easier than denim and/or some business trousers. 


Male staff, Men Can Stop Rape [MCSR], Congo


In terms of urban vs. rural dress code, do be prepared to dress a bit more casually when visiting villages. A nice t-shirt or collared polo are more appropriate than a button down business shirt. But don't forget your pants here, too! You will find that a lot of Congolese men will pair sweatpants with a nicer shirt. Within respectful limits, wear what is most comfortable!


You may want to bring a visor and/or hat for protection from the sun, as well as sunglasses! Parts of the DRC are right along the equator, a temperature and intensity we are not used to here in the United States. 


WOMEN
It is a good idea to keep the sundresses and short skirts at home, even those that are ordinarily acceptable to wear to the office here in America. Most older women will be wearing long, tailored skirts called pagne, sometimes paired with a more western-styled top or fully traditional top.

Woman selling bananas, Goma 

It is suggested that you observe a similar style of dress in urban areas, but even more importantly in rural settings. It is respectful to mirror this fashion, even if it requires you to stretch yourself and try different kinds of clothing items. Modesty is highly respected - since your desire is to build valuable relationships, it is important be respectful in this way!


You may want to bring a visor and/or hat for protection from the sun, as well as sunglasses! Parts of the DRC are right along the equator, a temperature and intensity we are not used to here in the United States. 

Be flexible.
Be considerate. 
Be respectful.
Be openminded.
Leave that sense of entitlement [we all have] at home. 
Cultural knowledge is incredibly valuable. When combined with the above, it is priceless!

"Hello..."

It's important to remember that gender roles and interaction between males and females will be different from what you are used to. In America we tend to value a sense of equality, regardless of gender. While this doesn't express itself in all situations and regions in the United States, you will find that what we Americans find to be appropriate will differ from that of the Congolese.

It is likely you will be spending some time in both urban and rural areas, so you must take note of differences between the two. Many people think of Africa and overgeneralize what the entire continent looks like - lots of dirt roads, little technology, mud huts ...you get the picture. In reality, Africa has many thriving cities with advanced technology and successful economies. It is inevitable that there will be more traditional values and understandings observed in rural areas than in urban areas.

If you are in a city... 
  • Greet everyone with a handshake when entering a room
    • if you are a male, it is safe to shake the hand of a female, and the reverse is true for females.
  • If [hopefully when] you become close friends, the acceptable greeting will change
    • a handshake, followed by a hug and three alternating kisses to the check
      • for men, these "kisses" are typically just a brush to the cheek
  • It is appropriate to use the French "Hello" - "Bonjour"


When you are visiting a village...
  • If you are a male, it is appropriate to shake hands with the other men in the room
    • in most situations a woman will greet a man by clapping the hands, sometimes accompanied by a slight bow
    • if a woman approaches you for a handshake you may accept
    • ***REMEMBER to mirror those around you, but be careful not to go overboard as this could be seen as disrespectful
  • Females may shake hands with one another 

For travel anywhere inside of the country, it is highly suggested that you try to employ a translator. This was noted in the "Language" section of our cultural review, but a translator not only aides with understanding spoken communication - they will also help you understand nonverbal communication through body language! 

Friday, April 13, 2012

So, you've made a new friend...

Hopefully you have paid close attention to cultural details and will successfully begin to build valuable relationships in your new environment. Needless to say you will have multiple priorities while you are visiting the country that are not solely making new friends, though we do hope you consider this to be one of your most important tasks. As we have noted in prior modules - to make the most positive impact on someone's life, you must get to know who they are and build a relationship with them first!

You may not consider yourself a "businessman"/"businesswoman," in the usual sense, you are entering the Congo with an [exciting and positive] agenda and you will have work to do. That being said, you should know that work and play [business life and personal life] are not separated as they are in the United States. Americans tend to be most comfortable drawing distinct lines between the public and private realms of life. This is uncommon in the Congo and you should be prepared to make friends before you make business partners.

Mud Brick Hut, Congolese Village, Kivu Province
Visiting is very important to in the Congo. This most often will occur in the home, and you should expect very hospitable hosts regardless of wealth or status. Don't be surprised if you are offered very much from your friends who may have very little. You should be accepting and do your best not to seem visibly uncomfortable with this, as it would be considered offensive.
The following information is here to provide you with a basic idea of what things might look like during your travels, and general knowledge of what to expect when you're visiting.

In rural areas:

  • housing is typically a one-room hut built of mud bricks
  • people live in village communities 
  • no access to electricity
  • water needed for washing and cooking is collected from nearby streams or wells
    • water can be filled with bacteria and disease, an issue known to many developing countries in the world
    • often it is the women and children who retrieve the water for the family, sometimes walking miles both ways
In urban areas: 
  • many buildings were constructed during the colonial era, and are often in a great deal of disrepair
  • sometimes up to three generations of a family will live in one dwelling
  • almost all neighborhoods have electricity, but be prepared for unexpected blackouts 
In refugee camps: 
  • some will look similar to villages, but with huts incredibly close
  • sometimes the United Nations or other international aid groups allowed in the DRC will provide tents, and you can expect the situation to consist of similarly close quarters with very little living space or provisions for families 

UN Refugee Camp "Mugungu 2," Goma 
You will likely be making connections with individuals that come from each of these areas. Be prepared for anything, and most importantly be flexible with the conditions you face. Take this opportunity to see the world differently and focus on the people you are with, not the circumstances around you. 
About visits...

  1. While you are still developing your friendship, be sure that plans to visit have been made ahead of time. 
    • do not drop by unannounced - this is reserved for very close friends and family
    • sometimes it is customary in America to bring a gift when you are invited over for the first time - as a first-time visitor in the congo you should not do this
      • HOWEVER, after you have built rapport with your new friends, it will be acceptable to bring a small gift of a food item or item for display in the home
  2. When you arrive, do not enter the home until you are invited in. 
  3. Ask before taking a seat.
    • it is likely that your host will offer you a seat almost immediately upon entering the home 
    • if there is not a seat readily available, they will make one for you! 
  4. In most cases children are not present during adult social time in urban areas, however it is more likely to be the exception rather than the rule in rural villages. 
  5. During a visit it is common to share a meal.

Sharing a meal...
** Remember ** 
Leave you entitlement at the door. This is a situation where it is absolutely crucial to be considerate of your new friend [host] and be open minded about the meal they are offering you. This is a developing country and most of the population survives on very little wealth, so it is an honor and privilege that you have been invited to share a meal with them. Be willing to try new things and you will be received very well! 

  1. When should you expect a meal? 
    • a light breakfast is eaten in the morning
    • the largest meal of the day is typically eaten in the late afternoon or early evening
    • if the family readily has access to food, there is a light snack eaten later on at night
  2. If you are not hungry, you should still attempt to eat the food out of consideration for the time and effort taken to prepare it for you. 
  3. Be careful how you eat - the Congolese will be watching to judge your sincerity and appreciation
    • if you think you cannot eat a lot, try to take just a little more than you are comfortable with eating
    • if you are offered food, show some reluctance at first - this is considered respectful - but ultimately you should accept what you are given! 
  4. Remember the gender roles that were addressed earlier? You will see these displayed when sharing a meal, as men and women use separate communal bowls
    • observe what your Congolese friends are doing and mirror this behavior, that is the safest way to be respectful if you cannot remember what is and isn't appropriate! 
  5. Most of the population will eat their meal with the fingers of their right hand, unless you are dining in an urban area with a new friend from a wealthier background
    • as noted before, this is one of those times where you MUST NOT use your left hand
    • if you are eating with utensils...
      • the right hand holds the knife
      • the left hand holds the fork
  6. Your hosts will wash their hands both before and after the meal - be sure to follow their example! 
  7. Meat is a rare dish for most households and as part of a high regard for the elderly, they are the ones who will distribute the meat. 
    • you may find yourself inclined to help distribute dishes, but be sure not to do so in such a case as this! 

The Congolese Diet...

  • fufu - made with yams/plantain and is similar to mashed potatoes in consistency; it is often eaten with sauce
  • fish - eaten in three different ways: salted, smoked, or dried
  • plantain - green banana 
  • beans
  • corn
  • vegetables 
  • rice
  • fruit 

Most of their shopping is done in open-air markets and you will not see supermarkets as we have in the United States.



Thursday, April 12, 2012

Conclusions

Congo Basin, Aerial View


It is our sincerest hope that the cultural details provided here will be an asset to you and facilitate greater success in all of your endeavors in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. We are thrilled that you have chosen to stand up and give a voice to the people of the Congo and wish you all the best.

Philanthropist and founder of A Thousand Sisters, Lisa Shannon
with sponsored women in the DRC


Remember: 

  • It would be impossible for you to hold all of the knowledge necessary for every unique situation you may encounter during your journey. In the case that you find yourself unsure, remember to practice humility. This will be your most valuable asset and will express your respect for the values and beliefs of those around you. 
  • Be prepared for the unexpected - there have been many lingering conflicts in this country that have left its people in brokenness and pain. You are entering the DRC to provide assistance and ultimately hope for these same people: it is okay to walk through their hurts with them, and this can only help to motivate your already budding desire and passion to help them. 
    • We encourage you to be mindful of attachments in your relationships, as well as to pay attention to your emotions. If you arrive at a place where you cannot maintain strength around your new friends, remove yourself and take the time you need to re-cooperate. 
  • And don't be surprised if you grow to love a country that was once very "foreign" to you, in every sense of the word. 
Congo River at sunset, Mbandaka